Upspoken’s Sex-Positive Gift Guide

‘Tis the season for giving. So why not give orgasms? 😉 No but seriously, it’s that time of the year when we’re starting to think about gifts for the women we love—yes, that includes the wish lists for ourselves ✊🏿.

Sure, we love nice candles, clothes, and new makeup, but if you’re ready to switch it up this year, here is a guide for sex-positive gifts for your shopping list this season. Healthy and safe sex should be a year-round gift, but why not spread some sex-positivity this season? Here are some traditional gifts with a sexual health twist. Happy reading, happy shopping, and even happier giving!

A book that your granny might blush at but your auntie might borrow

Which woman in your life loves the smell of new books and is always looking to try new things? This might be the perfect gift for her. Add an informative book to her library this year and get her the “Position of the Day Playbook.” You can buy it here.

Sexy PJs – when ya look good, ya feel good

Because there’s nothing like a soft robe to unwind in. Know a friend who loves to look and feel fab even while she’s relaxing? We love this robe from Savage X Fenty for her. Wanna kick it up a notch? This baby doll is for her. If you ask us, both of these are perfect for self-love time 💜.

(Source: Savage X Fenty)

A subscription box with lots to explore

Who said subscription boxes were only for makeup or clothes? Meet the Unbound box, a subscription box featuring a collection of products aimed at closing the orgasm gap. This women-owned company offers you the option to shop for individual products such as vibrators, or sign up for a subscription. When you sign up for a subscription, you get a box full of sex-positive goodies four times a year. Sign up here.

(Source: Unbound)

A personal massager to be your own boo

Let’s be real, we aren’t using these to massage the knots out of our necks! Kandi Buruss has something for everyone. Check out all the options in her shop here.  We guess you can say variety is the spice of life. You’ll find something for everyone on your list, from your friend who wants to do some exploring for the first time to your expert friend looking for the latest model.

Cute condoms with empowering messages  

Condoms are a must-have to be the queen of our sexual health. But that doesn’t mean they have to be boring! That’s why we have our 👀 on these cute ones from Lovability. Because yes, we want it all! ✨

(Source: Lovability, Inc.)